Peace Chinenye
2 min readJan 9, 2021


Appearance Key To Attraction

"Your dressing says who you are without having you to speak".

The impacts of our dressing in defining who we are is very high. People generally address us by the way we dress.

For instance, nobody needs to tell you that this is a madman when you see one,likewise a beggar and lots more.

I remembered the day I went to market to buy some wear. I saw one fair lady with a cloth that was so irritating. Her breast was heavily exposed, the length of the cloth was damn low.

As I was still thinking why she should dress in such a disgusting manner? There was a heavy uproar in the market, people were abusing her, some guys were touching her abnormally. The more she tried to talk back the heavier the uproar and insults. She couldn't bear the shame, she walked faster out of the market and entered a bike.

The way you dress determines what you attract. Most times, you hear people complain about how all the guys that comes their way wants nothing but sex instead of marriage. The first question that comes to my mind is dressing. How is your dressing generally?

Proverbs 7:10

And behold, there met him a woman with the attire of a harlot, and subtil of heart.

The way nudity has taken over our world today in the name of fashion is so disheartening.

People now believe that as a star,you need to dress naked to attract fans🤔.

Dressing has robbed many several opportunities. It has attracted many wrong partners to our ladies. It has downgraded so many people.

You don't need to expose your body to attract a man, instead you end up attracting the wrong guys. Like they say beget like.

Edith Head said, "You can have anything you want in life if you dress it".

In other words, you attract what you dress like. So think before you dress. Cover up your private parts.

It is called private because it is your private property and not a public one. Keep it private.

Don't allow your dressing to give a wrong definition of you.

Dress like a Great Woman

Dress like a Pace Setter

Dress like a Queen

Dress like a Princess

Dress like a Star with Focus

There's a King in You

Don't allow your dressing to give a wrong definition of you.

You are what you wear.

Think before you dress.

Greatness is You.